This topic was weighing hugely on my mind and I just had to post about it. 2017 has been nothing like what I thought it would be. If you told me on New Year’s that I would end a 7 year relationship, I would have been like wtf are you saying??? But it happened, and here I am. But here’s the thing, that relationship was long over, but I was fighting to hold on to it, trying to make things work.
I remember my sister always telling me- what are you doing??? You’re going to waste your 20s. One day you’re going to wake up and realize that you made a mistake. But I didn’t want to let go because 7 years seemed like a lifetime. How do you just let go of so much time, energy, effort, love…how do you just “throw that away“.
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